Rated 4.9/5
The Parent You Aspire to Be
💰 Don't Leave Money On The Table
💬 Know what to say instead
❤️ Help your child feel safe and heard
🧠 Stay calm when they melt down
👨👩👧 One message from both parents
Reader experiences
"I Rolled My Eyes At It"
My wife bought it and I assumed it was another parenting book that would sit on the shelf. The chapter on why kids melt down over nothing actually made sense. We changed one thing about mornings and the screaming stopped.
Dave M.
"First Calm Breakfast In Months"
I used the morning routine page the very next day. My husband asked what I had done differently. Nothing dramatic, I just had the words ready before it started.
Celine G.
"His Teacher Noticed"
I tried the approach in the backtalk chapter on a Monday. By Thursday his teacher pulled me aside and said she did not know what we were doing at home but he was like a different kid. I cried in the parking lot.
Mary L.
"We Finally Say The Same Thing"
My partner and I were parenting two completely different ways and our son knew exactly who to ask. Reading the same book gave us the same words. He stopped playing us off each other within a fortnight.
Jasmine P.
Why Choose Us™?
If you've ever closed the bedroom door, sat on the stairs, and thought "I swore I'd never be the parent who yells," this is for you. No more scrambling for the right words mid-meltdown. No more theory you can't use at 7am on a school morning. Just the exact sentence to say, the one to stop saying, and why it works. Think: fewer "I'm sorry I shouted" moments, more calm + connection.
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OTHERS
Wrong words vs right words
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Real stories, no theory
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Toddlers through teens
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7 chapters, use it tonight
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VERIFIED REVIEWS
"I Rolled My Eyes At It"
My wife bought it and I assumed it was another parenting book that would sit on the shelf. The chapter on why kids melt down over nothing actually made sense. We changed one thing about mornings and the screaming stopped.
Dave M.
"First Calm Breakfast In Months"
I used the morning routine page the very next day. My husband asked what I had done differently. Nothing dramatic, I just had the words ready before it started.
Celine G.
"His Teacher Noticed"
I tried the approach in the backtalk chapter on a Monday. By Thursday his teacher pulled me aside and said she did not know what we were doing at home but he was like a different kid. I cried in the parking lot.
Mary L.
"We Finally Say The Same Thing"
My partner and I were parenting two completely different ways and our son knew exactly who to ask. Reading the same book gave us the same words. He stopped playing us off each other within a fortnight.
Jasmine P.